I have three, i'd be happy to lend one for the proper bashing of yet another well meanining know it not at all. I've a number of problems which leave me barely able to walk sometimes and I really get tired of the people think if only I tried. "x" I would miaculously not be disabled anymore. My own Gary and my occupational therapist sister are the only ones who seem to even have a clue and who try to help instead of imply I just don't try hard enough. Thank God for them! Hope you feel better knowing it happens to others, not just you :)